Who owns a man? Wife or mother?

Who really owns a man? His mother or Wife?
Mother: My son must obey me unless he didn't suck my breast for 1 year
Wife: He sucks mine now & sucked it for more than 5 years and still sucking
Mother: I carried him for 9 months
Wife: He was only 3.5kg, so whats big deal? I carry him every night and he has 85kg now
Mother: He passed between my legs
Wife: Ahaaaaaaaa...........he only passed there once., he stays in between my legs like everyday.